I can't believe that my husband has been cheating on me for all of these years. He made up so many stories about work trips and the whole time he was having an affair. It's not just the lying that gets me, but the fact that he took so much energy and attention away from our family and kids to spend on his girlfriend. People keep telling me to give it time but there is no way I can forgive his deceit. It's time to get divorced and I plan to make him pay for what he has done to our family.